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Thursday, April 30, 2009
Just some thoughts..
Courtship is a time to see the good, the bad, and the ugly in the one we truly love. And not hide them.
Courtship is the time both to look for weak spots in your communication and to work to strengthen them.
And i got this 10 tips for communication from a book.
1. Learn to express your feelings and frustrations honestly, but without accusing or attacking the other person. (Proverbs 11:9)
2. Choos words, expressions, and a tone of voice that are kind and gentle. Dont use speech that could easily offend or spark and argument (Proverbs 15:1)
3. Don't exaggerate, distort, or stretch the truth. Avoid extreme words like never and always. (Ephesians 4.25)
4. Give actual and specific examples. If necessary, make notes before you communicate. Stay away from generalities.
5. Commit yourself to seeking solutions instead of airing your grievances. Getting even isn't the goal- you want to get things resolves. (Romans 12: 7-21)
6. Listen to what the other person is saying, feeling, and needing. Try to detect his or her underlying concerns. (James 1:19)
7. Refust to indulge bitterness, anger, withdrawal, or argument. Though these emotions are normal, indulging them is sin. (Ephesians 4.:26)
8. Don't hesitate to acknowledge your own failure, and be quick to forgive the other person. Make sure you dont hold a grudge. (Luke 17:3-4)
9. Keep talking and asking questions until you are sure that you both understand clearly what the other is saying and feeling. Encourage each other as you press toward a solution. (Romans 14:19)
10. Train your mouth and heart until you can say the right thing at the right time in the right way for the right reasons!
not easy at all..hahaha i need improvements.
Courtship is a time to see the good, the bad, and the ugly in the one we truly love. And not hide them.
Courtship is the time both to look for weak spots in your communication and to work to strengthen them.
And i got this 10 tips for communication from a book.
1. Learn to express your feelings and frustrations honestly, but without accusing or attacking the other person. (Proverbs 11:9)
2. Choos words, expressions, and a tone of voice that are kind and gentle. Dont use speech that could easily offend or spark and argument (Proverbs 15:1)
3. Don't exaggerate, distort, or stretch the truth. Avoid extreme words like never and always. (Ephesians 4.25)
4. Give actual and specific examples. If necessary, make notes before you communicate. Stay away from generalities.
5. Commit yourself to seeking solutions instead of airing your grievances. Getting even isn't the goal- you want to get things resolves. (Romans 12: 7-21)
6. Listen to what the other person is saying, feeling, and needing. Try to detect his or her underlying concerns. (James 1:19)
7. Refust to indulge bitterness, anger, withdrawal, or argument. Though these emotions are normal, indulging them is sin. (Ephesians 4.:26)
8. Don't hesitate to acknowledge your own failure, and be quick to forgive the other person. Make sure you dont hold a grudge. (Luke 17:3-4)
9. Keep talking and asking questions until you are sure that you both understand clearly what the other is saying and feeling. Encourage each other as you press toward a solution. (Romans 14:19)
10. Train your mouth and heart until you can say the right thing at the right time in the right way for the right reasons!
not easy at all..hahaha i need improvements.
Monday, April 27, 2009
I'M STILL THINKING OF THAT FOSSIL WALLET! =(
Friday, April 24, 2009
Something that im reflecting about myself now..
We need to concentrate not only on finding the right person but, more importantly, on becoming the right person. Character is what you are in the dark when no one but God is watching.
Who am I?? How am i??
We need to concentrate not only on finding the right person but, more importantly, on becoming the right person. Character is what you are in the dark when no one but God is watching.
Who am I?? How am i??
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
"The Joy of Intimacy Is the Reward of Commitment."
"The key to contentment is TRUST."
"If we allow impatience to govern us, we will miss the gift of the moment."
"The key to contentment is TRUST."
"If we allow impatience to govern us, we will miss the gift of the moment."
Thursday, April 16, 2009
woke up at 7.30 and prepare to go mjc.
so felt like a wednesday when i stil had school.
but nope..not uniform.
went back to support the dancers for their syf.
They got a silver.
which i so dont tink they deserve..they did a really good job.
from what i saw on tues and on stage today was like 2 worlds apart!
seeing the juniors cry just made me couldnt control my tears too.
I saw them putting in so much effort..practicing like almost everyday..and showing such great improvements. They were really sharp and neat on stage.
It's saddening to see them so upset.
I'm really proud of the dancers..
although on paper it's a silver, but im sure to all of the J3s, all of them deserve more than silver.
Hopefully next year there will be a concert, and we will all get to work and practice tgt again. I LOVE YOU DANCERS!! (:
so felt like a wednesday when i stil had school.
but nope..not uniform.
went back to support the dancers for their syf.
They got a silver.
which i so dont tink they deserve..they did a really good job.
from what i saw on tues and on stage today was like 2 worlds apart!
seeing the juniors cry just made me couldnt control my tears too.
I saw them putting in so much effort..practicing like almost everyday..and showing such great improvements. They were really sharp and neat on stage.
It's saddening to see them so upset.
I'm really proud of the dancers..
although on paper it's a silver, but im sure to all of the J3s, all of them deserve more than silver.
Hopefully next year there will be a concert, and we will all get to work and practice tgt again. I LOVE YOU DANCERS!! (:
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
so unreasonable!
what is this?!
just cos im working, im supposed to pay everything myself?!
i am just working PART TIME! im already not getting allowance, having to pay transport and food myself.
i've used this specs for like coming to 4 yrs..my eyesight already increased, and im not allowed to change my specs?! and she gets an OAKLEY!?
anna is superbly pissed off right now.
what is this?!
just cos im working, im supposed to pay everything myself?!
i am just working PART TIME! im already not getting allowance, having to pay transport and food myself.
i've used this specs for like coming to 4 yrs..my eyesight already increased, and im not allowed to change my specs?! and she gets an OAKLEY!?
anna is superbly pissed off right now.
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Anna is gona get dehydrated soon if the diarrhoea continues! =(
sometimes..i really dont understand why im doing all these.
like who will bother or even appreciate them.
like who will bother or even appreciate them.